Romeo Greenschpoon was raised in Brooklyn, by parents who were immigrants
from Russia. His physician father, a Shakespeare enthusiast, had named his twins
Romeo and Juliet, which created some ribbing. The boy changed his first name to
Ralph.
Ralph did pre-med at Columbia University. There being discrimination against
Jews at US medical schools, he studied medicine at the University of Bern in Switzerland, and
graduated in 1934. Ralph also married a Swiss woman, Hildi, and they moved to
Los Angeles for Ralph to do an internship at the Cedars of Lebanon Hospital.
They anglicised their surname to Greenson in 1937.
Ralph Greenson returned to Europe to become a psychoanalyst and was analysed in Vienna
by
Wilhelm Steckel (a
maverick in the psychoanalysis movement, who coined the term ‘paraphilia’ which
was later popularized by John Money, and who distinguished transvestism from
fetishism). However 12 March 1938 saw the
Anschluß Österreichs,
the Nazi takeover of Austria. Steckel and his wife immediately fled via
Switzerland to England. Greenson returned to Los Angeles, and resumed analysis
with
Otto Fenichel (an
orthodox Freudian, who had written about transvestites needing a fantasy of
girls with penises).
Greenson enrolled in the US Army in 1942, and initially worked in a veterans' hospital in New York state, until he cracked his skull while working in a
military ambulance. This exempted him from overseas service and he served as
chief of the neuropsychiatric unit at the Army Air Force Convalescent Hospital
in Fort Logan, Colorado, where he became known for his work with soldiers suffering
post-traumatic stress. He also observed gambling among US officers, and wrote a
paper on it for the psychoanalytical journal
American Imago.
Back in Los Angeles as a civilian, in 1946 Greenson bought a house at 902
Franklin Street in Santa Monica from Eunice and John Murray who could no longer
afford it. The Murrays divorced, and Eunice was hired by Greenson as his
housekeeper, assistant and sometimes companion for his clients.
He was a founding member of the Los Angeles Psychoanalytic Society and was
appointed to the faculty of the University of California Los Angeles (UCLA)
medical school. A gifted raconteur, he became one of the best-known
psychoanalysts in Los Angeles, famous for his lectures and teaching. Greenson was
also a violinist and he and some friends held a weekly salon where they played
chamber music. He became friendly with screenwriter and novelist
Leo Rosten (1911-1997), also
Jewish and from New York who was the brother-in-law of Margaret Mead.
Psychoanalysis was then in vogue and Rosten recommended Greenson as an analyst
to his Hollywood friends – Frank Sinatra, Tony Curtis and Vivien Leigh came to
Greenson’s private practice. Greenson suffered a heart attack in 1955, and
afterwards he worked from home in the afternoons: many of his better-known
clients who didn’t want to be spotted entering a medical facility, preferred to
see him there.
In February 1960, during the filming of the movie
Let’s Make Love,
co-starring Yves Montand and with a script revised by her husband Arthur Miller,
Marilyn Monroe (born 1926) had a breakdown, and her New York psychiatrist,
Marianne Kris, recommend that Greenson be brought in on a temporary basis. He had
fifteen sessions with her 11 February to 12 March, and was appalled by the drugs
that she was taking. Greenson was considered daring in accepting Monroe because
of her suicide attempts. Other psychiatrists had had their careers damaged after
a patient’s suicide, and Monroe was so famous. In addition Greenson was
overworked. He had already had a heart attack, and had cut down on the number of
his patients, but he still taught classes at UCLA, supervised psychiatrists in
training, and served on the board of directors of the American Civil Liberties
Union (ACLU).
In late August Monroe returned to Los Angeles from Nevada where she was
filming
The
Misfits, again from a script by Arthur Miller, and Greenson revised her
drug prescription. After the film she returned to New York, and in between dates
with the newly elected John F Kennedy and Frank Sinatra, she saw her psychiatrist,
Marianne Kris, forty-seven times in two months.
In January 1961 Kris had Monroe committed to a mental asylum at the New York
Presbyterian Hospital. Only the dramatic intervention of her previous husband,
the baseball star Joe DiMaggio, got her out. She no longer wanted to continue
therapy with Kris, and wrote a long letter to Ralph Greenson. By June Monroe was
living in Los Angeles and seeing Greenson as often as five times a week. It was
as if her needs were insatiable. He wrote to Marianne Kris how Monroe called him
at all hours, threatened suicide, and then improved, only to break down again.
“I had become a prisoner now of a form of treatment which I thought was
correct for her but almost impossible for me”.
Leo Rosten wrote a 1961 novel,
Captain Newman M.D, based on Greenson’s
wartime experiences in Fort Logan, Colorado.
In December 1961 Greenson placed his friend and housekeeper, Eunice Murray
(1902 – 1994), to be nurse and companion to Monroe. Murray had never seen a
Monroe movie. Monroe was delighted to find that Murray was an excellent
seamstress, as several of her clothes needed to be taken in. Monroe – who was
still exploring alternate spiritualities – was fascinated to discover that
Murray was a
Swedenborgian. In
February 1962, Murray helped Monroe look for a house, and they found an ideal
one at 12305 Fifth Helena Drive, Brentwood, only just over a mile from the
Greenson residence. Greenson’s sister’s husband, Mickey Rudin, a well-known
Hollywood lawyer became Monroe’s agent. Greenson held analysis sessions with
Monroe at his own house at the end of each day, which led to his inviting her to
stay for meals and musical evenings, and she met his wife Hildi, and his grown
children Joan and Daniel.
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| A 5-minute drive from Monroe's House to Greenson's |
Hildi suffered a mild stroke in February, and Greenson needed a rest from
Monroe. They left on 10 May for six weeks in Europe and Israel. Monroe had been
dumped by John F. Kennedy, and was having difficulties with director George Cukor
on
Something’s Got
to Give, and, against precedent, the Fox Studio executives ignored her
birthday on 1 June (they were in panic that the filming in Rome of
Cleopatra with Elizabeth Taylor was going to bankrupt them). The next day
she phoned Greenson’s house and his children went round. They called
Milton Wexler,
psychiatrist, Greenson’s designated locum. Monroe had Murray phone Greenson in
Europe, and he returned 6 June. He met with the Fox Studio executives, but to no
avail. They fired her on 9 June, but by the end of the month were negotiating to
get her back. She was then interviewed by
Life and
Cosmopolitan,
and did her first photo shoot for
Vogue.
At UCLA there were discussions about a new clinic, discussions that used the newly formulated expression: 'gender identity'.
Eunice Murray sometimes stayed overnight, and was doing so on the night of
4/5 August 1962. Around 3 am she suspected something to be wrong and
called Greenson, who came round and broke into Monroe’s locked bedroom via the
window. He found her dead from a drug overdose – this was confirmed by her
physician, and the police were summoned. She was the only patient who died in
Greenson’s care.
Later that year Robert Stoller,
Richard
Green and several UCLA psychiatrists founded the Gender Identity Research
Clinic. This was the first gender clinic so named, although those at
Johns Hopkins and
Charing Cross had been doing pioneering work in the field without
such a name. The UCLA GIRC was explicitly oriented to research, not to providing
support and surgery to trans persons. While Stoller was the Director, Greenson
was Senior Psychoanalytic Consultant. His son Daniel was also on the team as a
Research Associate. At this point Greenson’s experience with trans persons was
minimal.
The film version of
Captain Newman M.D., starring Gregory Peck as the
Greenson character, was released in 1963. Greenson had had his name completely
removed from the credits for fear that one of his patients would sue him for the
portrayal.
In 1964 Greenson presented a paper “Drugs in the Psychotherapeutic
Situation,” which is generally taken to be a thinly disguised account of Marilyn
Monroe being promiscuous. Also that year he interviewed a trans woman who is
assumed to have been
Tamara
Rees (who had completed transition in 1954). Greenson diagnosed her as in
flight from homosexuality. He claimed that some persons had such a dread of
their own homosexuality that it undermined their sense of gender identity: if I
love a man then I must be a woman. However, Tamara Rees was then on her second
marriage. She and her husband adopted children and remained together until his
death decades later. This same stance re flight from homosexuality was adopted
by the anti-gay psychiatrist
Charles Socarides
in New York a few years later.
Later that year Greenson took over from Richard Green the analysis of a
five-year-old boy, whose mother had brought him in after neighbors and his
teacher commented on his frequent cross-dressing. Greenson and the UCLA referred
to the child as ‘
Lance’.
He treated Lance mainly at the swimming pool at his own home, where he even
taught Lance to swim. Most of the sessions were comprised of games in the water.
This helped Lance to overcome his fears about being alone with a male adult. He
bought Lance a Barbie doll, but restricted its use. Apparently Lance stopped
cross-dressing. As Greenson saw it, he replaced Lance playing with the doll by
playing with an adult male. According to Greenson, Lance had had difficulty
differentiating loving an object from wanting to be the object. Initially he had
referred to the doll as ‘me’.
Stoller and Greenson refined the concept of ‘gender’ that was being used at
UCLA, by using the term ‘gender identity’ to refer to “one’s sense of being a
member of a particular sex”.
In his 1965 public lecture, “Masculinity and Femininity Reconsidered”,
Greenson had this to say: “It is not true that girls and boys are identical in
behavior until the phallic or oedipal phase. For example, girls do much more
playing with dolls than do boys, and boys are more prone to be ‘blanket lovers.’
This is an indication of a greater tendency to fetishism in boys. Boys who play
with dolls are more apt to become transvestites." and “Deep analysis of
fetishism and transvestitism in men, as well as deep analysis of neurotics,
indicates that there exists in men a deep wish to be a woman. This is not just a
wish for castration or a defense against castration anxiety; it is an indication
of a special problem in individuation. In early development it becomes necessary
to differentiate oneself from the mother. In individuals who fail or who do this
only imperfectly there is apt to remain a need to become a woman. Both boys and
girls go through a normal phase of envying mother. The girl has a special
problem in changing her love object from mother to father. The boy has a special
problem in changing the object of his identification from mother to father. This
has important implications for the development of masculine or feminine traits.”
(Nemiroff et al, p166)
In 1967 he was able to complete his
The Technique and Practice of
Psychoanalysis,which has become a classic in the field. He advocated an
orthodox approach to the therapy, not such variances as he had done with
Marilyn and Lance.
In 1968 Greenson proposed a developmental theory for homosexuality: “The male
child, in order to attain a healthy sense of maleness, must replace the primary
object of his identification, the mother, and must identify instead with the
father. I believe it is the difficulties inherent in this additional step of
development, from which girls are exempt, which are responsible for certain
special problems in the man's gender identity, his sense of belonging to the
male sex. ... The male child's ability to dis-identify will determine the
success or failure of his later identification with his father.”
In 1972 Greenson gave a lecture for West German television, and surprised
them by doing so in German. The English translation was entitled “A MCP Freudian
Psychoanalyst Confronts Women’s Lib”. “I was first made aware of the possibility
that man's envy of women was more widespread than I had anticipated by some
clinical experiences that I had at the Gender Identity Research Clinic at the
UCLA Neuropsychiatric Institute. In that Clinic we see patients who desire a
surgical change of gender. People come there who believe they are ‘really’ a man
in a woman's body or a woman in a man's body, or who simply insist they cannot
live in their assigned gender and want an anatomical, surgical readjustment.
Incidentally, these patients are clinically not psychotic. My theoretical
training had led me to expect that, on the basis of penis envy, most of the
patients would be women hoping to achieve a male habitus. To my surprise,
two-thirds of the patients were men desiring to be transformed into women. The
wish in men to be a woman is far more widespread than the conscious attitudes of
men and women indicate, and more than the psychoanalytic literature would lead
one to expect. Incidentally, transvestism, masquerading in the clothes of the
opposite sex, only occurs in men, not in women.’ (Nemiroff et al, p260)
Greenson died age 68 in 1987.
The Greenson papers on Monroe and other celebrity and rich clients have been
filed with the Special Collections at UCLA and will not will available to the
public until 2039.
- Ralph R Greenson. “On Gambling”. American Imago, 4,2, April 1947:
61-77.
- Leo Rosten. Captain Newman, M.D. Fawcett Publications, 1961. A novel
based on the wartime experiences of Rosten’s friend Ralph Greenson, and issues
with empathy and post-traumatic stress.
- David Miller (dir). Captain Newman, M.D. Scr: Richard L Breen, Phoebe
Ephron, Henry Ephron, based on the novel by Leo Rosten, with Gregory Peck as
Josiah J Newman. US 126 mins 1963.
- Ralph Greenson, “Drugs in the Psychotherapeutic Situation,” presented at a
conference on “Psychotherapeutic Drugs: Indications and Complications,” January
12, 1964, USLC Center for the Health Sciences.
- Ralph R. Greenson, “On Homosexuality and Gender Identity,” International
Journal of Psycho-Analysis, 45, 1964. Analysis of Tamara Rees.
- Ralph R. Greenson. “A transvestite boy and a hypothesis”. International
Journal of Psycho-Analysis, 47, 1966: 396–403.
- Ralph R Greenson. The Technique and Practice of Psychoanalysis.
International Universities Press, 1967.
- Robert Stoller. Sex and Gender: On the Development of Masculinity and
Femininity, Science House,1968: 144, 152-3, 161, 254, 263, 266.
- Ralph R. Greenson, "Dis-Identifying From Mother: Its Special Importance for
the Boy," International Journal of Psychoanalysis, 49, 1968: 370.
- Robert J Stoller. Sex and Gender Vol II: The Transsexual Experiment.
Hogarth Press and the Institute of Psycho-analysis, 1975: 41, 53, 104-5, 124,
293.
- Ralph R Greenson. Explorations in Psychoanalysis. International
Universities Press, 1978.
- Janet Malcolm. Psychoanalysis: The Impossible Profession. Rowman
& Littlefield, 1980: 45, 74-5.
- Kenneth Lewes. The psychoanalytic Theory of Male Homosexuality. Simon
and Shuster, 1988: 192, 197-8, 204, 206.
- Robert A. Nemiroff, Alan Sugarman & Alvin Robbins (eds). On Loving,
Hating and Living Well: The Public Psychoanalytic Lectures of Ralph R.
Greenson. Karnac, 1992.
- Luciano Mecacci. Il caso Marilyn M. e altri disastri della
psicoanalis. Giuseppi Laterza & Figli, 2000. English translation by
Allan Cameron. Freudian Slips: The Casualties of Psychoanalysis from the Wolf
Man to Marilyn Monroe. Vagabond Voices, 2009: Chp 1.
- Joanne Meyerowitz. How Sex Changed: A History of Transsexuality in the
United States. Harvard University Press, 2002: 115, 126, 173.
- Pierre-Henri Castel. La métamorphose impensable: essai sur le
transsexualisme et l'identité personnelle. Gallimard, 2003: 88-9,
432n17.
- Daniel Greenson. “Greenson, Ralph (1911-1979)” in Alain de Mijolla.
International Dictionary of Psychoanalysis. Macmillan Reference,
2005.
- Douglas Kirsner. “‘Do as I say, not as I do’: Ralph Greenson, Anna Freud,
and superrich patients”. Psychoanalytic Psychology, 24, 3, 2007:
475-486.
- J Randy Taraborrelli. The Secret Life of Marilyn Monroe. Rose Books,
2009: 158, 164, 166, 168, 180-190, 199, 201, 203, 205, 215, 217, 224-6, 228-9,
240-2.
- Riccardo Galiani. “Un cas, deux écritures, une catégorie”. Topique,
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- Christopher Turner. “Marilyn Monroe on the couch”. The Telegraph, 23
June 2010. Online.
- Richard Green. “Robert Stoller’s Sex and Gender: 40 Years on”. Archives
of Sexual Behavior, 39, 2010: 1461.
- Lois W Banner. Marilyn: The Passion and the Paradox. Bloomsbury,
2012: 164, 166, 308, 329, 332-4, 341-2, 349-350, 352, 358-9, 363-372, 375-6,
380-8, 391-407, .
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Closed. Skyhorse Publishing, 2014: Chps 3, 16, 17, 20, 21, 24, 25. Also
p1-3, 5, 32, 34, 41-4, 47, 51-2, 55, 57-9, 61, 67, 74, 76, 83, 92-3, 98, 121,
125, 153-5.
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The books on Ralph Green that discuss his involvement with Marilyn Monroe
don’t mention his involvement with the GIRC; those that discuss his involvement
with the GIRC don’t mention his involvement with Monroe. Janet Malcolm mentions
neither, nor does the article on Greenson in the
International Dictionary of
Psychoanalysis written by his son Daniel.
There are an amazing number of personal interconnections in the Marilyn Monroe case. See the diagram on p33 of Mecacci's book. For example Greenson's patient Frank Sinatra was also a lover of his patient Monroe. Eunice Murray's former husband John Murray was the analyst of Anton Kris who was the son of Marrianne Kris, Monroe's New York psychoanalyst.
If you google Greenson and Marilyn Monroe, you will find him accused of
everything from having an affair with her, to controlling her life, to being
complicit in her murder.
Caveat lector.