Part 1:
Youth and Copenhagen
Part II: fame and marriage
Part III:
The geography of Charlotte McLeod in New York, 1957
Charlotte was offered night-club appearances. A reporter, who worked at the
National Press Club and normally wrote religious articles, proposed to do a book
on her, and put her up in a hotel in Washington, DC while they worked on it, but it
was never finished, and he ran out of money.
She took a gig in New Orleans, but found that the contract was with a strip
club.
“And right across the street was a very, well the nicest club on the
street. No hard bumps and grinds and strips and all that kind of thing. And to
get me out of the verbal contract the owner paid for me going to court. And the
next thing I am sitting up in front of the judge. I never will forget, I had a
great big felt cart wheel hat on. Couldn’t sit on the seat because the cart
wheel hat hit the back and I had to take my hat off. I don’t know why I should
remember that. In that day and time ladies wore their hats. And he released me
from the contract and I went across to the Show Bar, which was the nicest club
on the street.” (Stryker:26)
A dancer-comedienne called Cupcake wrote material for Charlotte:
“ I’ve been to many places, environments strange, and then I went to Denmark,
just for a little change”.
Then she moved on to the Casino Royal in Washington where she was backed by a
band. She had become a member of the American Guild of Variety Artists, and was
represented by Miles Ingles who was also the agent for
Cyd Cherise and
Polly Bergen. One time she
appeared on stage in between
Gypsy Rose Lee and
Mae West. She also did
modeling. Charlotte met Christine Jorgensen once when they were both appearing
in New Orleans.
In August 1955, Charlotte had breast implants with New York plastic surgeon,
Else La Roe (1918 – 2006).
In 1956 she wrote a brief autobiography for the
Mr Annual, in which
she claimed that her condition was physically caused, and that 95% of
transsexuals should have psychiatric treatment.
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| Dorothy at the all-night beauty salon |
Charlotte worked as a secretary and then as a receptionist at an all-night
beauty counter.
She was becoming annoyed by star reporter and television personality,
Dorothy Kilgallen.
“I got tired of Dorothy Kilgallen chasing me around and writing things about
me that I have never thought of doing. And I went to her house [45 E
68th Street] one day and knocked on her door and the butler
recognized me, it was strange, he said, ‘aren’t you Miss Charlotte?’ And I said,
yes. And he said, don’t go away. I said, well I have no intention, that’s why
I’m here. So I met Dorothy. And I said, well Dorothy, I’m tired of this, this
business and I need a job. If you’ll help me get a job, I’ll tell you anything
you want to know. Her husband is Dick Kollmar a Broadway
producer, and he owned the Left Bank Club. He owned a little French restaurant
and bar right across the street from Madison Square Garden. And in that day and
time, the hat check and cigarette concession could make you a decent living. So
they were most pleased to get me to be the hostess and hat check girl. The main
thing that’s fun, I met everybody that ever was in show business.” (Stryker: 28)
This was 1957. It was while working at the Left Bank Club that Charlotte met
Harry
Benjamin, who came in as a customer. He became her physician, and also would
take her out to lunch and introduce her to such conservative activists such as
William Buckley as well as film stars.
Charlotte was living at the Washington-Jefferson Hotel on West
51
st Street. Ralph Heidal, whom she had met in Bergen, had stayed in
touch by mail. They ran into each other in Maxie’s, a bar close by. He offered
to take her away.
In 1959, Christine Jorgensen had been denied a marriage license by a clerk in
New York City, on the basis that her birth certificate listed her as male;
Jorgensen did not pursue the matter in court.
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| Charlotte in Miami 1959 |
Charlotte had been working in
Miami, first as a secretary, then demonstrating cosmetics. After some months,
Charlotte and Ralph, having become regulars at a Miami church, were married
there in November. She did not mention her birth gender, however, or the fact that she was still legally a male. Press interest was aroused, but the Florida
authorities confirmed that the marriage was not in violation of state law.
Dorothy Killgallen had contacts in Miami as everywhere, and their wedding was
featured in her column.
A few months later, Mr and Mrs Heidal moved to California. They lived in
Berkeley, then Oakland and then Marin County. Charlotte reconnected to Harry
Benjamin who spent his summers in San Francisco. He introduced her to trans women
Aleshia Brevard and
Kathy Taylor who had been friends since their days at
Finocchio’s
nightclub, where Kathy performed as Stormy Lee.
Mrs Heidal’s marriage to her husband lasted seven years.
“And bless his heart, he couldn’t do a darn thing but drive a steamship
around the world. Never did teach that rascal to drive a motor car. In fact,
that’s why we broke up. I had visions of a little cottage on the side of Mt. Tamalpias. And oh
how we did love it. But Ralph didn’t find a job. Everything he knew was diesel,
whatever made steamboats run. I took him to every plant in Northern California
trying to find a job for him. And finally, I got the proverbial Dear John
letter. He said it was how it is every year we had to write but unless I was
willing to go back to New York, where he was perfectly happy. And we would have
to part company and I wouldn’t go back to New York.” (Stryker:31)
Dorothy Kilgallen died in November 1965 at age 52 after ingesting alcohol and
barbituates. Some say that she was
murdered
(
more)
for digging into the Kennedy assassination – her folder of documents on the case
had disappeared and was never seen again.
After her divorce, Charlotte moved to Laguna Beach, south of Los Angeles,
because she had friends there. She got a job as a receptionist at a beauty
salon. Charlotte arranged to have vaginoplasty:
“I was living at Laguna Beach. And a little Japanese doctor did it. And there
was some instrument that he had to have, I think. He was under the impression
that he could use the same instrument on me that he could on a normal woman that
needed that surgery done. Well he did and perforated my colon. And I had to go
to Stanford to have the colostomy to repair his work and while I was there I
stumbled on Dr. Donald Laub [head of the Sexual Identity Unit]. Oh, me. What a
to-do that was.” (Stryker:22)
One of the beauticians mentioned that her brother-in-law had lost his
wife to suicide. They were introduced and started dating. He was a military
officer with two children, eleven and twelve. The kids started calling her Mom.
On 8 August 1969 she was visiting Kathy in Los Angeles where they could see a
commotion across the canyon that turned out to be the aftermath of the
murder of
Sharon Tate and 3 others by
members of the Manson Family.
The military officer asked Charlotte to marry him, but something had to be explained
first.
“In fact, it was Cathy who went to him and explained to him the situation
because we had debated. He hadn’t the vaguest idea. And I knew, if he hadn’t
already asked me to marry him, Cathy said, let me see if I can help. And she
went and talked to him. And Cathy’s husband did not take it so well. In fact, he
was very belligerent when he did find out.” (Stryker:41) [Cathy=Kathy of course. Aleshia Brevard, who knew her, spells it with a 'K'. The transcription of the interview spells it with a 'C'.]
Charlotte and the military officer were married in Las Vegas in 1970 – this time with no
press attention. Again the marriage lasted seven years.
Return visits to the Stanford clinic and Dr Laub created problems when her
husband went with her.
“And that really ruined my marriage with my second husband. We were going up
and stopped by for a chat with him. And we went in and Donald had started, he
was so very selective, very selective. He had a Gorgeous George sitting in there
with tattoos all over him.” (Stryker:44) “He did ruin my marriage. My husband
saw me in a different view from what he had in mind.” (Stryker:45)
After the end of her second marriage Charlotte moved back to Dyersburg,
Tennessee to look after her ageing mother. She stayed in touch with her step
children. The son died in middle age without finding out about Charlotte’s past;
at the turn of the century, Charlotte was very sick and wrote to tell the daughter on her
own terms in that it would come out if she died. That daughter has had children, and thus Charlotte became a grandmother.
++Charlotte remained in Dyersburg, and died at age 82. Her passing was not noticed by the press, which probably would have been to her liking.
*Not the mystery writer, nor the character in the television show,
McLeod’s Daughters.
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The Washington-Jefferson Hotel is still in business. Its rooms are now $
126
a night and up. Charlotte says: it “was a place for retired show people who
lived there” which probably means that even after adjusting for inflation it was
cheaper in 1957, particularly if you paid by the month.
Aleshia Brevard in
The Woman I Was Born to Be, 2010, p48 writes:
This is quite different to what Charlotte said, whereby the wedding was after
the confrontation at Kilgallen’s apartment, and the husband was certainly aware
of Charlotte’s past before he married her.
Tina Thranesen gives the name of the New York plastic surgeon as Rachael
LaRoe; Joanne Meyerowitz gives it as Else La Roe. I have gone with the latter.
In the Stryker interview it sometimes becomes confusing about when things are
happening. I have placed the vaginoplasty operation just before Charlotte met
her second husband because she says that she was living in Laguna beach at the
time, and Donald Laub was not at the clinic at Stanford until 1968.
Charlotte says that she was already married when she observed the Tate
killings from a distance, but that happened in August 1969, and she also says
that the wedding was in 1970. Time does affect our memories. (Stryker: 38-9)
The Wikipedia page on
Dorothy Kilgallen
says nothing at all about Charlotte. Likewise Lee Israel’s 1979 biography,
Kilgallen.
Likewise Mark Shaw’s
The
Reporter Who Knew Too Much: The Mysterious Death of What's My Line TV Star and
Media Icon Dorothy Kilgallen.
There is something missing from the source documents: Dorothy Kilgallen's articles about Charlotte are not online. The collection of newspaper articles found at
TransasCity is very good, but does lack this component.
Trivia: Dorothy Kilgallen was at 45 E 68
th Street; Harry Bemjamin’s
office was only a block away at 44 East 67
th St.
- “Sex-Shifter Wants to be Charlotte”. Boston Daily Record, June 15,
1954: 4. Online.
- “Charlotte Seeks Night Club Job”. New Orleans Times Picayune, June
24, 1954: 8. Online.
- “Charlotte Halted by Court Action”. New Orleans Times Picayune, July
4, 1954: 11. Online.
- “Charlotte M’Leod Suit Lost by Badon”. ”. New Orleans Times Picayune,
July 10, 1954:1. Online.
- “Sex-Changed Ex-GI Becomes Miami Bride. UPI, Nov 13, 1959. Online.
- “Bride Revealed as Forner GI”. San Diego Union, 11/14/1959: A3. Online.
- Joanne Meyerowitz. How Sex Changed: A History of Transsexuality in the
United States. Harvard University Press, 2002: 82-3, 84, 89, 91, 148,
304n93.
- Susan Stryker interviews Charlotte McLeod, transcribed by Loren Basham.
GLBT Historical Society, August 22, 2002. PDF.
- Aleshia Brevard. The Woman I Was Born to Be. A Blue Feather Book,
2010: 5, 48.
- Brittany Shammas. “Five Moments in Miami’s LGBTQ History, From 1937 to 2015”. Miami New Times, March 12, 2019. Online.
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